For the Lives of Prison Wives

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Dry your tears Sis!! It’s time to Boss TF Up!! Fr!!

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Yes, I said it!!  Yes, the Prayers of a Prison Wife Author!!  Guess what?  I had to tell myself the same thing!!  Boss TF Up!! Like Uncle Steve Harvey says, God still workin’ on me.   So, sometimes you just gotta say what needs to be said.  Lol
There’s no way to get through this by staying down and out!!  It’s not good for you or your Bae, your Boo, Your Snookums… Whatever you call your Loved One.  It ain’t good!!
A prison relationship is one of the most challenging relationships you can experience.  With it comes a rollercoaster of emotions.   You have the choice to let the rollercoaster control you and give you the ride of your life!!
 

Or, you control it and determine when and how you’re going to take the ride.  Of course, some ups and downs are inevitable.   But it’s up to you to determine how to cope/deal with the inevitables.

I learned the best way to control some of the emotions was to change my focus.  Too much negative focus on your Bae is enough to ruin your day literally.  He/she is not there and not coming as soon as you’d like.  This means he/she can’t help you out physically in any way, shape, form, or fashion.  This means you can’t talk to him/her when you feel like it.  This means you can’t visit when you want.  I could go on and on.  And these are literally the thoughts that consumed my mind at one time until I had an epiphany and realized, “Alright now girl!!  This is not going to get it!!”
I had to Boss TF Up or this thing was going to beat me tf down!!


So, what are you going to do?

How about joining me on January 18, 2020 at 7:00 pm cst so we can Boss TF Up for 2020!!

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There Is Power In The Vision Board That Is!

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Write My Goals? Do I Have To?

Is there really power in the vision board? We hear too often,”write your goals”, “what is a vision/dream without written goals?” Goals, Goals, Goals!!! If you’re anything like me, you hear it but you don’t hear it. Surely, I can accomplish what needs to be accomplished without having to actually write my goals. My goals are etched in my mind. I’ll make it happen, I know exactly what I want and the steps I need to take to get there.  Time moves on and before you know it, your shouting that infamous countdown…10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1!!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! May all acquaintance be forgot…. and after the excitement of the New Year winds down, you’re reminded of your old acquaintance. That vision/dream that can’t be forgotten because it’s etched so deep in your heart and constantly tugging at your mind so much so that it can’t be forgotten. It won’t let you go and you can’t let it go. You didn’t forget about it, you just got caught in the spin cycle of life. Moving on with life as life continues to move on, yet remaining unintentionally stagnate.

The Vision Board Party!!

Although you remain stagnate, God continues to move on your behalf sending people and situations that will one day move you from life’s spin cycle. In my case, He moved through a friend inviting me to attend a Vision Board Party. I accepted the invite, attended the party, where I was surrounded by other dreamers who hadn’t quite gotten around to giving their dream a voice.  It was there that  I created my vision board. Every picture and word that I cut was deliberate and caused some form of thought or reflection on my goals. It was something about being still, although not alone, and focusing on myself and making a plan for myself. At one point the room became silent as we all focused on our futures. After completing our vision boards we were instructed to put it in a place that we would see it first thing every morning.  Now, this was my second time creating a vision board but I never kept the first one in my possession and was not able to see it daily.

Seeing My Dreams

This time, I actually listened and hung my vision board on the wall by my bed! As soon as I opened my eyes, that’s what I would see… my dreams! Of course the first few weeks I marveled over my board and it’s content with excitement! Eventually, my impatience kicked in and doubts would surface every now and then. Will this really happen for me? But in spite of those thoughts, I continued to look at my board and claim my goals. One key word on my board was “CHANGE” in big letters. It wasn’t until a major change took place that I looked at my board and made the connection. There are several other pictures and words that I now notice are representative of what has taken place in my life or is in the process of taking place.

I truly believe there is Power in the Vision… Board That Is. There is some type of supernatural phenomenon that takes place when you’re able to physically see your dreams in front of you waiting for you to ignite them!

Habakkuk 2:2-3 2 And the Lord answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. 3 For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.