Walk In My Nikes

I really don’t understand!!  Why are people making this so difficult?  Why Kaepernick chooses to kneel during the national anthem is a simple stance against the genocide of African Americans by those who have taken an oath to never betray public trust.  

He’s Kneeling for those African Americans who cannot trust police officers in general due to actions of corrupt officers and a system that twists, turns, bends, and flips the law in an attempt to “Make America Great Again”.  You know, the “great again” where killings of blacks were justified by the justice system if the case was even brought to the justice system.  Ok, I’ll give America that… the cases are at least brought to the justice system today…Yeah, that Great Again.

He’s kneeling for those who lost their lives to hands that are only trigger happy when their eyes detect a certain hue.  He’s kneeling for the families who have lost their loved ones and are still suffering from their loss to officers that took an oath to never betray public trust.

He’s kneeling for future African Americans that will lose thier lives to the officers that took an oath to never betray public trust.

He’s kneeling for hope that in the future some way some how that even if an African American committs a crime that he/she will be ale to at least live to have the opportunity to a just trial.

He’s kneeling for those whose images play in the media like a mini movie featuring a “thug” as the leading actor instead of a once upstanding citizen who came from a troubled past and became a terrorist- oops, excuse me, shooter.

He’s kneeling for those who feel like their voices aren’t being heard so they riot while Kaepernick hopes that their voices are heard in his silence.

He’s kneeling for those who were on their ground like Tamir Rice but were gunned down by officers that will attempt to justify that they didn’t have a choice but to stand theirs.

He’s kneeling for African Americans and brown people who live majority of their lives behind bars for some of the same crimes that their counter parts committ but get the opportunity to live their lives on the other side, the “free” side, of the bars.

So instead of being so quick to burn Nikes, why not take a walk in the Nikes of people of color.  We don’t have a choice but to walk in the Nikes of white America.  Why not walk in the Nikes left behind by the Eric Garner, Trayvon Martin, Sandra Bland, Philando Castile, etc.  (I hate that I have to use “etc.”) who no longer have the option to stand or sit and place their hand over their heart as the National Anthem plays and the flag waves.  

The question remains, why make this so difficult?  Where is the disrespect?  The real disrespect is America’s neglect!! … If we all just take a walk in the Nikes of others, we’d have a better understanding of our sisters and brothers.  Just Do It!!

10 Reasons Prison Visits Make Prison Wives Woosah

For Prison Wives prison visits are our WOOSAH!  Going days, months, and years for some without seeing our loved one is enough to drive both of us insane if you let it. Please don’t let it!  And to think, that a lot of prisons are turning to video visits is unbelievable!  The only little bit of normalcy we have left is being threatened.  To go without human contact physically is inhumane and is no way rehabilitative. But anyway, while we still have our visits, these are just some of the reasons prison visits mean so much to us! If you’re a PW add what the visits mean to you in the comments.

  1. We get to see our loved one walk through the doors with the biggest kool-aid smile ever!

2.  We get to talk about all those things we’ve been waiting to say (good, bad, and/or ugly) and can’t say because of recorded calls.  Some things are just better said in person.

3.  We get to have unlimited conversations that aren’t cut short because of the rude woman that jumps in and then has the nerve to disconnect the call right when the conversation is getting good!

4.  We get to be in the arms of the person we love and experience the long-awaited best 5 minutes (ok, I think five minutes may be pushing it) before and at the end of visit.

5.  We get to take care of our Baes by preparing the best vending machine entree fresh out the microwave, served on paper napkins topped off with nice vending cold drink!  If we get lucky, we may be able to feed it to him.

6.  We get to breathe the same air, be in the same space,and just simply enjoy each other’s presence.

7.  We even appreciate the little moments of silence together if there is a moment.

8.  We get to have the burden of “holding it all down” lifted  for that moment

9.  We get to listen to each other’s innermost thoughts and feelings that lies beneath the exterior that the world sees.

10.  We get to be a normal, loving couple…

10 Reasons Prison Visits Make The Mister Woosah